Guest Speaker

Hope doesn't just happen

I am a passionate, inspirational speaker focused on Reclaiming Lost Hope in our lives, especially after the death of a child. Life happenings can certainly rob you of your hope but there are questions we can ask ourselves to reclaim it. I speak directly about suicide and the dynamics surrounding that type of loss, but also about other events that trigger grief and mourning. I've been married to my husband, Terry, for 36 years and we have seven grown children, three of whom served in our military, and 10 grandchildren.  I first met Jesus 42 years ago and have rarely looked back. What a ride it has been!

My favorite pastimes are reading (voraciously), traversing natural waterways, enjoying a great cup of coffee, and teaching.

Grief

Unresolved grief can lead to lost hope and sometimes, Suicide. I discuss pivotal points that need addressed to ensure healthy processing of grief, such as signs and symptoms of stalled grief and how to kick start the process. 

Food

     It may seem strange to have food related to the loss of a loved one, but food addiction is one aspect that can develop as a coping mechanism for unresolved grief. 

Hope

     How to find and keep it. 


"As a  working death investigator and educator for death investigators across the country, I rarely find a family member who had a loved one die by suicide so ready to share and help others who have experienced such tragedy.  I have heard MaLisa share her story and have watched her interact with law enforcement officers, coroners, and survivor families.  I would recommend MaLisa to any group of family survivors or investigative agencies.  She will inspire and educate the group in amazing ways."


Darren Dake  D-ABMDI CI, CCi

Coroner 

To schedule a speaking session

MaLisa Toddy GBC, DD, CBT, EMDR, PTSD

Email: claimyourhope@gmail.com Call: 573-201-1794